After a brief lack of motivation at the beginning of January, and taking care of a sick baby for the last week and a half, I am so far behind on my novel.
In most areas of my life, I have to set deadlines or else nothing would get done. Seriously. My mind is usually buzzing a million miles a minute so it helps me prioritize and actually cross items of off my ever-growing to-do list.
I knew I would either have to stick a deadline on my writing or watch it end up in a pile with the rest of my half-assed, unfinished project. After sadly realizing how much work I still need to do to turn a messy rough draft into an even coherent story had me bowing my head in shame and questioning my approach. Luckily, I didn’t let it get me down for too long. I am so determined to turn this dream into a reality, that I had to come up with a better game plan.
I originally dove into this novel head first and naively believed that my passion for writing would carry me through. Right now you are probably laughing at my stupidity or giving an acknowledging nod, because you too thought it would be a piece of cake.
“Sure, I can get the revisions done in a month and off for reviews and onto an agent right after that! I wrote it in a month, why not right?” I can’t believe I ever thought that was a “realistic deadline!” It was insane.
I instantly whipped out my trusty planner, favorite pen and started jotting down an ACTUAL plan that won’t leave me feeling like a failure, totally overwhelmed, or submitting a horrible novel just because I want to meet a “deadline.” … hopefully 😉
I thought I would share a couple of key points I came up with in case anyone else was in the same sinking boat:
- Set realistic, SMALLER goals that are attainable. – After admitting to myself that writing isn’t always fun and it certainly isn’t always easy, I have a better idea what kind of time I need to create something that I’m proud of. It’s important to know your own personal limits to avoid getting burned out and discouraged.
- Schedule, schedule, schedule – Plopping down at my computer or notes when ever I felt like it, clearly wasn’t getting me very far. After work, taking care of a very energetic baby boy, cleaning the house (this is where my husband would laugh), and what ever shenanigans is going on at the moment, the only thing I want to do at the end of the day is relax… Solution? Write in the morning when I have energy and focus. I also have to write every day or I fall into the habit of saying, “Oh, I’ll write tomorrow…” Try to find time that fits naturally into your schedule, whether that means writing daily or every Tuesday at 3:00 am.
- Measurable accountability – People always say if you want to accomplish a goal, tell others about it. I am new to the writing and blogging world, so I don’t have many write buddies (yet!) so for now, I have given my husband a general idea of my goals so he can help motivate me to keep going. We usually sit down every Sunday and talk about what we have coming up in the week, so I decided to add a “novel update” to review my progress. He’s not a writer, so I expect some interesting conversations. The more people you have in your cheering section, the better so reach out to people you know will help you to keep reaching for the finish line.
- Remember why you write – There have been so many occasions when I have stared at the computer screen and wondered what the hell made me think I could write a book! With out fail, as soon as I pick up a brilliant novel, I’m reminded how much I love writing. It sounds cheesy, but isn’t reading a really great book the best magic trick around? I love being about to care so deeply for a character or story that I’m instantly lost in another world. That is what brings me back with renewed faith in myself. I want to spread a little of that magic!
If you have any other tips that keep you self motivated or if you could use some writerly support- I would love to hear!